Brooke Shields, the renowned actress known for her roles in films like “Blue Lagoon” and “Pretty Baby,” has officially joined the ranks of empty nesters. With both of her daughters, Rowan and Grier, now in college, Shields is navigating the bittersweet emotions that come with this new chapter in her life.
In an exclusive interview with People magazine, Shields, 59, opened up about the challenges of letting her girls spread their wings and the joy of watching them grow into their own unique selves.
The Emotional Goodbye
As Shields dropped off her youngest daughter, Grier, at Wake Forest University, where her older sister Rowan is also a student, the reality of the situation hit her hard. In an emotional Instagram video, Shields shared her raw feelings with her followers.
“I sat here a year ago and I watched my big girl leave – I’m back on this porch and I am now officially an empty nester,” Shields said, holding back tears. “They’re together at least, but it’s really not – it’s not easy for the moms. I mean, it’s just so weird. It’s so weird that she’s not here.”
The actress recalled the difficult moment of parting ways with Grier, admitting that it was a tearful goodbye and that she had cried for “a good portion of the ride home.
A Bittersweet Transition
Shields’ daughters, Rowan and Grier, have distinct personalities that have kept the household interesting over the years. Rowan, described as having “golden retriever energy,” is known for her boundless energy and humor, while Grier, likened to an “Abyssinian cat,” is poised and put together.
As the girls embark on their college journeys, Shields is feeling a mix of emotions. While she is “terrified” about becoming an empty nester, she is also proud of the strong, independent young women her daughters have become.
“I’m terrified!” Shields told People. “I’m worried about me, just as much as I’m worried about her,” Grier quipped, sharing her mother’s sentiments.
Rowan, who is a senior at Wake Forest University, offered some lighthearted advice to her mother, saying, “I think she’s really busy now, which is good. Swamp her with work!” She also joked, “Off the record, I’m hoping you and Dad rekindle the flame,” referring to Shields’ longtime husband, Chris Henchy.
A New Relationship with Her Daughters
As her daughters transition into adulthood, Shields is navigating a new kind of relationship with them. She acknowledges that they are no longer solely hers, but their own individuals.
“All of a sudden they are not yours anymore,” Shields said. “When you realize they are their own human beings, you get to meet them again.”
Grier echoed this sentiment, explaining that their relationship with their mother has evolved into a closer friendship, where she still disciplines them but in a different way.
“I feel like we’re much closer,” Grier said. She also revealed that Rowan will always have her back, no matter what, and that their bond is unbreakable.
Shields is proud of the strong, resilient young women her daughters have become and believes they are well-equipped to handle whatever challenges come their way.
“They’re both tough and strong-willed,” Shields said. “The world is not going to undo them.”
Embracing the Empty Nest
While Shields is undoubtedly going to miss having her daughters around, she is not alone in her empty nest. The family’s dog, Tuzi, will remain with her, providing companionship during this transition.
Shields has an impressive net worth of $40 million, which she shares with her husband, Chris Henchy, an entrepreneur and producer. This financial stability allows her to focus on her emotional well-being during this significant life change.
As an empty nester, Shields has the opportunity to explore new hobbies, travel, and focus on her relationship with Henchy. Many parents in her position have found success in saying “yes” to social gatherings they previously didn’t have time for, embracing their newfound solitude, and striving to strengthen their marriage now that their children are no longer their primary focus.
Brooke Shields’ journey as an empty nester is one that many parents can relate to. The emotions of letting go, while simultaneously celebrating the growth and independence of her daughters, are both joyful and challenging.
Through her openness and honesty, Shields has shown that it’s okay to feel a range of emotions during this transition. By acknowledging the difficulties and embracing the opportunities that come with an empty nest, she sets an example for other parents navigating this significant life change.
As Shields and her daughters embark on this new chapter, one thing is clear: their bond remains strong, and they will continue to support and love each other, no matter the distance or circumstances.